The conditions of life won’t always change, but it doesn’t mean you can’t live the next moment well.Some people go through a crisis and they fold. Others get stronger. Why? Simply put—radical acceptance of what is. So what is it? How do you do it practically speaking?

If you’re not engaged in healing the wound in the masculine/feminine archetypes within, you’re not accessing your whole self. And it’s costing you.

She’s hungry For his attention or the bills to be paid or for the kids to be fed or for the situation to be dealt with or for his affection once more or for a chance to get away for a few minutes alone. The Feminine will always feel totally stressed next to the unresponsive Masculine

The Feminine has been told she is too much. And honestly She probably is. Because the inverse of this statement is that the Masculine has not been enough. Men, we must discover the Sacred Masculine in ourselves.
We must embody that strength, if we are ever to hold a lover in the way we desire.

While you hear about The Divine Feminine and the rise of the goddess, what about a parallel in Men’s Work? Why is it that in women’s circles its quite accepted to honor the goddess, but in corresponding male rituals, its rare to speak of masculine gods? In this piece Rainier explores the socio and political arguments behind this thinking, and calls for a return of the gods of men.