defining what you want in love and learning to not settle for less.

It can be disheartening. We get it.

Looking for love has never been more challenging than it is right now in our culture. It’s hard to know what you should expect or require from someone else, if you’re being too hard on them, or if you’re selling yourself short.

Where do you find the One? How do you keep the One? Is there more than one, One? If we had the One and let them slip away are we doomed to a lifetime of cheap imitations and regret? How do we know what the standard should be?

These are the questions we hear from you ALL THE TIME!

Whether you’re in the dating world or you’re in a committed connection, it gets discouraging. Sometimes you want to throw up your hands and say, “What’s the point?!” So many of us feel defeated and tired of playing the game.

But what if this was your chance to grow? To core down into who you truly are, what you really want, and to become the person you want to be? What if this was the opportunity you needed to not just find or keep the One, but to actually BECOME the One? What if this was your shot to define the standard?

We’re here to let you know, that’s exactly what this is about. That’s why we designed this 3 part workshop series.

do you…

FEEL UNCERTAIN about knowing whether a relationship is right for you

FEEL ANGRY that you keep repeating the same patterns, dating the same people

FEEL WORRIED that you’ll never meet someone who matches your criteria

FEEL ALONE waiting for the right one to come along

FEEL CONFUSED about what traits to look for in your connections

FEEL TIRED of thinking you’ll have to settle in order to settle down

FEEL DESIRE for a relationship that soothes your nervous system and is kind to your heart?

you’ll learn…

  • How define what gets your full body YES and your full body NO

  • How to establish appropriate boundaries in relationships

  • How to advocate for your desires, feelings and concerns.

  • Warning signals, red flags and deal breakers in connection to others.

  • How to clarify your values—knowing what you must have, and what you can live with.

  • How to identify connections that do not allow for growth and evolution.

  • How to end relationships that don’t support you or sustain you.

  • How to cope with disappointment, rejection and heartbreak.

  • How to choose partners who value your time and your energy.

  • Your love language and how to spot the love language of others.

  • How to build a thriving life that includes not only lovers, but friends and family, and a network of support.

This workshop includes…

ARE YOU WANTING….

to gain clarity on your values and priorities in romantic relationships, develop healthy communication and boundary-setting skills, and learn how to avoid settling for less than what you deserve in love? Do you want to cultivate relationships that bring you joy, fulfillment, and mutual growth while avoiding settling for anything less than what you truly desire?

We’ll be talking about…

WORKSHOP ONE: “The Foundation”

Discovering your self, September 18

  • Exploring Personal Values: Reflect on your core values and beliefs to understand what is most important to you in a relationship.

  • Identifying Patterns: Analyze past relationships to recognize any recurring patterns, both positive and negative.

  • Defining Personal Needs: Clarify your emotional, intellectual, and physical needs in a partnership.

  • Setting Healthy Boundaries: Learn how to establish and communicate boundaries that protect your well-being.

WORKSHOP TWO: “Powerful Communication”

impacting others, September 25

  • Communicating Authentically: Develop skills for honest and open communication, including expressing desires and concerns.

  • Active Listening: Understand the power of active listening and how it fosters understanding and empathy.

  • Recognizing Red Flags: Learn to identify warning signs of unhealthy dynamics and behaviors.

  • Confidence Building: Explore techniques to boost self-confidence and empower yourself in the realm of dating and relationships.

WORKSHOP THREE: “The Long Run”

Developing a vision for your future, October 3

  • Setting Relationship Goals: Envision your ideal partnership and align your aspirations with potential partners.

  • Embracing Individuality: Emphasize the importance of celebrating your uniqueness and finding partners who appreciate you for who you are.

  • Moving Forward: Equip yourself with strategies to cope with heartbreak, setbacks, and disappointments while staying resilient.

about Rainier & Kristi

Kristi Born, is a therapist and coach who specializes in relationships and who teaches courses on Human Sexuality and Couples & Family Therapy Techniques.  Rainier Wylde holds a Masters degree in psychology  and is a writer, coach, and the author of Amazon Bestseller, "As You Are.” They are a married couple dedicated to pulling back the curtains on the modern landscape of love. Together they host the celebrated podcast "Love Like Hell," where they use riveting storytelling to talk about and teach through relational principles. They have mentored many couples and individuals to bring deep freedom and lasting change.

Student feedback…

We took Rainier & Kristi’s course on Trusting Again and we were blown away by the amount of information and helpful content. In 3 sessions we felt like our relationship was revolutionized.

Sarah & Evan

Working with Rainier & Kristi changed my life. They will always be in our heart...Thank you for helping me in the process of discovering myself.

THOMAS & EVALYN

I’ve taken a few courses with Rainier & Kristi, and I’ve listened to their podcast. They are absolutely incredible. This is something that I cannot emphasize enough. They make complicated issues relatable. They’re hilarious. And they don’t leave you feeling alone. Don’t miss whatever they offer!

Anonymous

My husband and I tried everything. Therapy, coaches, groups. Nothing did. But couples mentorship with Rainier has transformed our relationship. We are on the same page (finally)! We are so thankful for this time together! AMANDA & DUSTIN

 
 

Details…

 

  • There are three workshops, each lasting for 2 hours.

  • Classes are interactive and dynamic events—they take on a shape of their own.

  • All workshops are recorded and members have access to full, archived courses upon request.

  • PDF study guides will be sent to all participants and contain recap notes, journal prompts, scripts, and communication tips.

  • Class members have access to a private group chat with others in the group for encouragement, feedback, and challenge throughout the month.

  • There will be BONUS end of the month Q&A for participants to ask about their specific situations and receive feedback and support

  • Space is limited.

 
 

in case you

wondered…

  • Sept 18 @3PM PST

    Sept 25 @3PM PST

    Oct 2 @3PM PST

    *all classes will be recorded and available for lifetime access and playback

  • This is for anyone looking to be in loving connection with others! Actually—even if you just want to start with loving YOUR SELF that’s great by us.

  • Very. Expect group check-ins, break out groups, and direct feedback in a group setting.

    Of course you can feel to participate as much or as little as you’d like but you’ll get a lot more out of this by showing up fully!

  • All classes will be recorded and available to those who aren’t able to attend.

  • Absolutely! This is an open and affirming environment for lovers!

  • Please refer to the refund policy