When the cost of love is your self, the price is too high.

Sometimes it’s not about who they are. It’s about who we become when we’re in relationship with them.

Have you ever felt like you're losing yourself in the pursuit of someone else's happiness?

Do you find your well-being tied to the moods and actions of someone close to you?

Maybe you've noticed that your relationships feel more like an emotional lifeline than a partnership.

If these scenarios feel familiar, you're not alone, and there's a way forward. Codependency isn’t just your problem. It’s actually everywhere. It’s the water we’re swimming in. That’s why we created "Liberated Love." This is a course designed to guide you from the shadows of co-dependency into truly being available to real and lasting union. This journey isn't about assigning blame—it's about understanding patterns, recognizing how deeply intertwined lives can become, and learning how to untangle yourself without losing the connection.

The truth is that your guides, Rainier Wylde and Kristi Born, know what they’re talking about. They’ve lived this. In multiple marriages and relationships, and as experts in their field. They bring their personal triumphs over co-dependent relationships into their teaching, Liberated Love is a blueprint that is more than educational—it's transformational. Rainier and Kristi are committed to combining lived experience with psychological insights, offering a beacon of hope for anyone ready to find balance in their relationships. Anyone who has heard their popular podcast “Love Like Hell” knows that they build on detailed maps of the world, but deliver it with a personal touch! You won’t want to miss this exciting and dynamic course!

True love and connection should enrich one’s life, not take away from it.

Real love asks us to become more, not less.

The greatest relationships are those that honor and celebrate the uniqueness of each partner.

This is about learning to become a whole self—in connection to someone else doing the same. That’s freedom. That’s liberated love.

you might be entangled in codependency if you experience…

  • A relentless need for approval and recognition from your partner to feel valued.

  • Difficulty making decisions without consulting your partner, even when it concerns your personal preferences or needs.

  • A pattern of putting your partner's needs above your own, often at the expense of your well-being.

  • Feeling trapped in a cycle of rescuing or fixing problems for your partner, fearing that if you don't, the relationship might crumble.

  • An overwhelming fear of abandonment that leads you to cling tighter, even when it's clear that space is needed.

  • Ignoring your own hobbies, interests, and social life to devote more time to your partner or their activities.

you’ll learn how to…

  • Identify and Understand Co-Dependency: Gain a clear understanding of what co-dependency is, how it forms, and its impact on your sense of self and your relationships.

  • Cultivate Self-Awareness and Independence: Learn strategies for developing a stronger sense of self, including setting boundaries, rediscovering personal interests, and prioritizing self-care.

  • Transform Relationship Dynamics: Shift from co-dependent behaviors to healthier, more autonomous relationship patterns, fostering mutual respect and independence.

  • Communicate Needs Effectively: Develop the skills to express your needs and desires clearly and confidently, without fear of rejection or abandonment.

  • Build Emotional Resilience: Strengthen your ability to handle emotional ups and downs independently, finding stability within rather than seeking it through others.

  • Create a Vision for Healthy Love: Envision and lay the groundwork for relationships that are balanced, fulfilling, and supportive, without losing sight of your individuality.

This workshop includes…

"Liberated Love" is more than a course—it's your first step towards a life where love complements your independence, not defines it. Are you ready to transform your bonds into bridges towards a more empowered and fulfilled self? Join us on this journey to liberated love.

We’ll be talking about…

WORKSHOP ONE: “Unveiling Shadows”

SELF DISCOVERY AND BOUNDARIES, MAY 6, 2024

Dive deep into the roots of co-dependent behaviors and start the journey towards self-awareness. Learn the art of setting boundaries that honor your well-being.

WORKSHOP TWO: “The Joy of Independence”

CULTIVATING SPACIOUSNESS, MAY 13

Focus on building your independence, finding joy in solitude, and engaging in life beyond your relationship.

WORKSHOP THREE: “Hearts Aligned”

BUILDING HEALTHY CONNECTIONS, MAY 20

Discover how to maintain your newfound independence while nurturing a loving, balanced relationship.

about Rainier & Kristi

Kristi Born, who tends to be the avoidant attachment style in the relationship, is a therapist and coach who specializes in relationships and who teaches courses on Human Sexuality and Couples & Family Therapy Techniques.  Rainier Wylde, an anxious hearted lover, holds a Masters degree in psychology  and is a writer, coach, and the author of Amazon Bestseller, "As You Are” and the forthcoming book “Love Against Time.” They are a married couple dedicated to pulling back the curtains on the modern landscape of love. Together they hosted the celebrated podcast "Love Like Hell," where they use riveting storytelling to talk about and teach through relational principles. They have mentored many couples and individuals to bring deep freedom and lasting change.

Student feedback…

We took Rainier & Kristi’s course on Trusting Again and we were blown away by the amount of information and helpful content. In 3 sessions we felt like our relationship was revolutionized.

Sarah & Evan

The Standard was the last course I took by Rainier & Kristi. It didn’t just change my relationship with others, it changed my relationship with my self!

Patty

I’ve taken a lot of courses on Attachment, and done a lot of online courses in general, but Rainier and Kristi’s presentation on Attachment work was unreal. They’re just so engaging. And really made everything so applicable to my life. I loved it.

Brittany

I’ve taken a few courses with Rainier & Kristi, and I’ve listened to their podcast. They are absolutely incredible. This is something that I cannot emphasize enough. They make complicated issues relatable. They’re hilarious. And they don’t leave you feeling alone. Don’t miss whatever they offer!

Anonymous

My husband and I tried everything. Therapy, coaches, groups. Nothing did. But couples mentorship with Rainier has transformed our relationship. We are on the same page (finally)! We are so thankful for this time together! AMANDA & DUSTIN

 
 

Details…

 

  • There are three workshops, each lasting for 2 hours.

  • Classes are interactive and dynamic events—they take on a shape of their own.

  • All workshops are recorded and members have access to full, archived courses upon request.

  • PDF study guides will be sent to all participants and contain recap notes, journal prompts, scripts, and communication tips.

  • Class members have access to a private group chat with others in the group for encouragement, feedback, and challenge throughout the month.

  • There will be BONUS end of the month Q&A for participants to ask about their specific situations and receive feedback and support

  • Space is limited.

 
 

in case you

wondered…

  • May 6 @3PM PST

    May 13 @3PM PST

    Ma 20 @3PM PST

    *all classes will be recorded and available for lifetime access and playback

  • This is for anyone looking to be in loving connection with others! Actually—even if you just want to start with loving YOUR SELF that’s great by us.

  • Very. Expect group check-ins, break out groups, and direct feedback in a group setting.

    Of course you can feel to participate as much or as little as you’d like but you’ll get a lot more out of this by showing up fully!

  • All classes will be recorded and available to those who aren’t able to attend.

  • Absolutely! This is an open and affirming environment for lovers!

  • Please refer to the refund policy